steve kwan user experience designer

It's hard being diplomatic

(March 6th, 2006 - 8:31PM)

I believe that diplomacy is really important in interpersonal relationships. So many people are quick to fly off the handle and express their anger (how DARE you do something I don't approve of!). However, too few people are willing to approach conflict in a calm, rational manner. Sometimes I wonder if people are more interested in finding solutions or just venting.

I try to be diplomatic whenever possible; however, I find that it's getting harder and harder. I know how important it is to solve problems and take the higher ground in arguments, but some people are just so unreasonable.

Once in a while I just want to freak out and yell.